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#WednesdayVerses: Wings on Fire

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Thu, 08 Mar 2018 07:24:00 +0000

This is where I walk to,

When I have so much to do,

But I am left with no clue,

On how to take things through.

Life is very demanding,

It takes a lot of understanding,

To live it astounding,

I must keep expanding.

As I lie down and question why,

I see the bright stars shining in the sky,

Colors add beauty I cannot buy,

Gave me a feel that it is all worth another try.

The swing under this big tree,

Lets my thoughts flow free,

As I fly higher, my doubts clear,

Setting my wings again on fire!

The chill breeze tingling my face,

Reminds me that I must embrace,

All that I am and all that I will be,

Just to set my spirits free.

A renewed energy finds its way inside me,

Letting dubious thoughts flee,

A free spirited me,

Finally opens this heavy lock with a key!

Joining Vinay and Reema for #WednesdayVerses.

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#WednesdayVerses: Shadow of our Love

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Fri, 16 Feb 2018 11:29:00 +0000

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Life today isn’t what it was

Before a couple of years,

With pain engulfing me,

Not knowing what the next turn is about to bring.

From being the confused soul

To becoming the firm believer,

I have been through it all,

To understand I belong with you!

We stayed away,

To know what it really means,

We walked away because

We didn’t want to hurt each other.

Though we knew it from the beginning,

We are meant to be,

We had been through enough,

To believe in this sweet ecstasy.

When we let things be,

And broke our walls,

We found each other,

And laughed at our choice.

We married with blessings from all,

A splendid surprise after a long haul,

As Man and Wife our journey began,

Enjoying each moment as much as we can.

Even as Life twists and turns,

And even now some words burn,

You and I walk together,

Making this is our package altogether.

The arrival of our bundle of joy,

Has made us laugh more and enjoy,

All her giggles and snuggles,

Is more than enough to make her our new Valentine.

Watching the shadow play in our room,

Moving forward and backward,

I am swaying to a song in my mind,

Thinking about our Love and our dance together!

Prompt: Shadow

Joining Vinay and Reema for #WednesdayVerses.

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#WednesdayVerses: That Calming Effect

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Wed, 07 Feb 2018 14:23:00 +0000

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It isn’t easy to stay silent,

Amidst chaos,

Inside as well as out,

But, I have no choice.

Anger rising slowly,

As I hold it all in that deep breath,

Waiting to let it go,

But all I do is push it aside.

Words can be wronged,

It’s the same with feelings,

When you let them out to those who don’t understand,

It does not hold any value.

Tears make more sense,

Those who don’t understand today,

Will know someday,

That I don’t have anything more to say!

It’s better to let it go,

Than to make others see your point,

Which some never understand,

Until they bother to listen.

As I realize this,

A sense of calm enters me,

Tells me that I have me,

The best company!

Prompt: Calm

Joining Vinay and Reema for #WednesdayVerses.

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#WednesdayVerses: My Blessing In Disguise

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Thu, 25 Jan 2018 18:42:00 +0000

Though times have changed,

The memories we created remain unchanged,

We have learnt to be together,

Even during the bad weather.

As we sipped our cup of tea,

Our memories started floating free,

Laughter slowly filled the hall,

As we started sharing it all.

We learned to be with each other,

We always have one another,

To share our little secrets,

As well as our life’s regrets.

Just upon your arrival,

I thought you were my rival,

You changed me with your love,

For which I am thankful to the lord above.

We fought so much

We never thought we’d even stay in touch,

The day I was transferred to another state,

I learnt you are my soul mate.

My First Little Girl, My Inspiration,

My First Daughter, My Sweet Pride,

My Second mother at times,

My Best Friend Forever.

Our lives are so different,

Yet we have so much to talk,

A day isn’t enough,

To get all our stuff out.

We are best friends now,

We laugh at our days before,

In each other we will always confide,

For we have nothing at all to hide.

The best gift my parents ever gave me,

Is this bundle of joy,

I call as my sister,

A blessing in disguise that I never want to miss her.

Joining Vinay and Reema for #WednesdayVerses.

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How Vitamin E Changed Me from Being Simply Pimply?

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Wed, 24 Jan 2018 12:32:00 +0000

I am excited to write this blog post for #Evion via #Indiblogger. It definitely took me back to memories. This post will help people who have tasted life at its worst with acne. I share how Vitamin E helped cure my acne problem when so many other treatments failed. If one had to describe me to some other person, the first thing to notice would be my acne and the scars. This journey helped in rediscovering me.

How it All Started?

Right from my high school days, I suffered from severe acne. My parents had spent half their earnings in treating my acne. Before a decade and a half, a visit to a dermatologist was a costly affair. I took my father’s Genes at least when it came to skin problems. My father and my aunt had severe acne with very little treatment leading to acne scars. However, when I had the same, my father suggested I visit a dermatologist and get it treated sooner.

I had visited many dermatologists and took medications as suggested for a couple of years. I faced severe stomach problems due to the prescribed medications. My actual problem wasn’t really resolved. Most of them suggested I use the prescribed soaps, creams and tablets for the rest of my life to keep my acne in control. Simply put, they had no idea what was causing it, but only provided medications to suppress. After a bout of severe stomach issues, I let go of the idea of visiting doctors for my acne. I never bothered about my acne either. Every once in a while when I get a severe breakout, I would worry immensely about it and console myself that I must learn to live with it.

When I joined college, I felt embarrassed about my acne. Though I felt low on confidence when it comes to looks, I never compromised on my studies. I managed to keep a low profile. I never felt confident. Wherever I went, people always questioned me about my acne. I hated visiting shops as the store girls always approached me with creams to treat my acne. I had tried every traditional treatment. Turmeric, Neem, Tulsi or Chickpeas powder. Nothing helped.

How The Internet Helped Me Resolve My Problem?

Thanks to YouTube and many Lifestyle and fashion bloggers. There were remedies flooding the Internet that I didn’t know what to choose initially. The two simple yet most important steps that changed my outlook on acne and life.

Finding My Super Foods:

Yes, I had to find them. I consumed foods liberally. Oily, spicy and junk were my top preferences always. I never really bothered about other options that existed. When I decided to work on myself, I really had to change my entire lifestyle. The first change was the most difficult ever, Leaving my comfort food.

Firstly, I had to include foods rich in Vitamin E. They were rich in antioxidants and the first ray of hope to reduce my skin inflammation. Applying the oil helped soothe my highly irritated skin.

Almond made its way to the top of my list. Wherever I went, I always carried a small box of almonds with me. I have 5 almonds every day. I followed the same routine throughout my pregnancy and now after delivery too. It is almost a decade since I follow this and I can vouch for the changes in the texture of my skin.

I have heard my mother and grandmother advising me to soak them overnight. I do them every once in a while when I remember. Otherwise, my best evening snack with tea is a cup of almonds roasted in ghee, nice and crisp.

Some friends suggested I take almond milk. Soak the almonds overnight, peel the skin (or you can leave it as it is), grind it in the Mixer and drain the milk. If I remember right, I tried it only a couple of times. That was a little tedious for me, so I always include almond paste in my cuisines.

I did my research and found that Vitamin E was present in some of the foods I preferred. I love peanuts, hazelnuts and sweet potatoes. I was introduced to Avocados at work. I preferred the smoothie. I take a bowl of spinach at least 3 to 4 times a week.

How Evion 400 Helped Cure my Acne?

A family friend suggested Evion 400 capsules. Initially, I wasn’t ready to take them orally. I was worried if they would cause any side-effects. I used them in my face masks, hair masks and body massages. The only time I did not use the capsules are during my pregnancy. Instead I used its alternatives. Olive oil massages to cope up with my dry skin and scalp.

Here’s a list of my home made remedies with #Evion Capsules:

1. Hair Mask:

Open three capsule(long hair) and pour the oil in a bowl. Add Coconut / Olive oil for regular massages before hair wash. Double boil the contents before use. You can either use a cotton ball and massage the oil on your hair or just use your finger tips to gently massage the oil into your hair. If you prefer to use Almond or castor oil, the choice is yours. It works best with these four oils.

It helps cure dandruff.
It is the simplest and the easiest method to glowing and bouncy hair.
It helps calm frizzy hair
It works best on dull hair and gives it a glow on regular use.
It helps remove split ends.

2. Face Mask:

I don’t use makeup since most brands irritate my skin. They aggravate it and cause breakouts. However, I had to visit a couple of parlors for a trial makeup before my wedding reception. During those times, I used Vitamin E Capsules as a cleanser along with Almond oil. Dab this combination on a piece of cotton and slowly remove the grime. It did not irritate my skin and did its job perfectly.

For Acne Scars:

Wash your face before applying any mask. I use few drops of Vitamin E oil with Raktachandhan (Red Sandalwood powder) powder and make it into a paste. Just rub the paste on the scars. Let it sit there for half an hour to an hour before washing it with cold water.

For Pimples:

A pinch of Sandalwood powder + Turmeric Powder + Few drops of Vitamin E oil. Apply this combination on the pimples. Let it sit there for 10 to 15 minutes before you splash the water on your face.

3. Massage it

One of the best ways to save the skin during drying winters is by applying Vitamin E + Coconut oil after bath. Using it as a natural moisturizer helps prevent excessive dryness.

The Actual Cause of My Acne

Slowly, with changes, I also identified the causes for my acne. The top most reason was my fluctuating hormone levels. My skin is sensitive as well as oily. Most doctors suggested drying out my skin and moisturizing it externally. This over dried my skin thereby hitting high on the sensitivity scale and also secreting more oil than usual to compromise the loss. My facial skin used to turn pink when I walked under the sun. The excess oil blocked my pores and lead to breakouts.

By now, you must have got an idea of how Vitamin E helps nourish our skin. You can also try Evion Supplements for your recipes. If you love to try any recipes mentioned here, please feel free to use them. However, check if you are allergic to Vitamin E oil before using it. Please feel free to share your experiences with Vitamin E oil with me. I would love to follow new remedies.

How will Vitamin E masks help your skin? Let me know.

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This post is written for the Evion – My Vitamin E Mantra contest on Indiblogger. Please feel free to share your views here.

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Haikus for Heart prints #writebravely

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Tue, 31 Oct 2017 05:05:00 +0000

I had so many plans to end this pro blogger challenge on a lovely note. That too, with heart prints being the final prompt. However, sometimes we plan something and God plans another. Cold and fever had left me drained. So I am finishing my challenge on a simple note now.

I am thankful, grateful and feeling blessed for all your support guys! Haikus for you.

Your Love and support

Made challenge interesting

Making heart prints felt

Heart prints of kindness

Sent during our high fever,

I Will not forget

At tough times like these

A supportive family

Is what we all need.

Feeling so blessed

To have family and friends

To boost energy.

My dearest husband

Your love, patience and support

Helped us heal quickly.

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A song for each season! #writebravely

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Sat, 28 Oct 2017 02:11:00 +0000

Music has a special place in our hearts. We have that special list of songs for all moods as well as mood swings. Either we dance to the tune we hear on a radio or for the tune inside our heads. At times, there’s some random song stuck on your head and keeps repeating itself ‘n’ times like a stuck tape recorder. Neither does it relate to the situation nor is it your favorite. It is just there the whole day or few hours and goes away!!

Personally, I love peppy ones. It does not just uplift me, it has changed many glum days into good mood days! It is also a stress buster. The best part about this variety is most are meaningless and kick-ass songs that makes us get up and shake our limbs. Like Aaluma Doluma!

There was one particular song that my sister and I kept as an alarm tone and also listened to it every morning religiously. We wake up dancing, sometimes even with our eyes closed. This song was our morning motivation! It is not just good to listen, but also a visual treat! It’s also the first five songs that I saw in my New Moto to check the quality of speakers and visual display. I am sure you will enjoy it too. Its Kattikida from Kaaki Sattai.

The first film we watched after marriage was Irumugan. Yes, that is again one of Vikram’s best movies. After that, until now, I am a fan of the song, Halena. Look at both of them, aren’t they so cute! This is now my go to song that changes my mood irrespective of the day. This was my stress buster during pregnancy!

There is one thing about Westlife that I adore. These guys set the standards for me about Love, and they set it high! Look at each one of them, their voice and their looks are enough to fall in Love with them. They were my teen love and it still continues! Just look at them. I love every album of theirs. Coast to Coast is a personal favorite. If it’s them, I will stay glued to the TV too. I remember watching their documentary and also crying when Brian McFadden left. *Heartbreak*

Most Tamil songs from the 40s till the 90s is my company during tough days. I hardly listened to melody, but that’s what helped me through my tough times and glum days. The meaning of Life is beautifully explained in the olden songs, and when we understand them they become golden memories. Kannadasan’s songs in TMS voice is the best combination. The age-old songs dedicated to God will make you feel his presence and take us to that temple itself.

After a tiring yesterday, I feel so much better writing about music today. It’s been quite a while since I listened to songs, but now and then these beats keep me going!

I would love to listen to your song list too!

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This Monster in Me #WriteBravely

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Tue, 24 Oct 2017 03:34:00 +0000

This monster in me

This monster in me,

Does not let me be,

She always disagrees,

So I never let her free.

I struggle to tame her,

That’s what stirs her,

Her horns grow stronger,

As if they were always there.

I let my anger grow,

My thoughts go with the flow,

I yell, I pout,

I get it all out.

The cry makes me fret,

Then I am upset,

I try to forget,

There is so much regret.

This monster in me,

Wouldn’t let me be,

I want to change,

Yet, Change sounds very strange.

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Courage vs Comfort #writebravely

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Fri, 20 Oct 2017 10:33:00 +0000

Comfort vs Courage

Comfort is not as it seems,

You live in your dreams,

Sitting and making schemes,

Smiling at the consequences of extremes.

It is easier to sway,

When the world is before you in a tray,

Not an inch you will move away,

And in the end you will not be gay.

Courage is a tough process,

But it will take away your distress,

Lets you develop great finesse,

Right after you are ready to confess.

It is a quality difficult to manifest,

It let’s you do your best,

You will definitely feel blessed,

For moving out of your nest.

We have all been there. Comfort was our first choice for everything. I have been there. I even stick to comfort foods. Our choices when we stick to comfort can be very limited and even deadly sometimes. The decisions taken in comfort might be hasty. One needs courage to face their own decisions. That’s when we move from comfort to courage. We also understand we can’t have both which is good when it comes to this.

What do you think about comfort and courage? Write to me in my comments ?

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Disobedience #writebravely

Jayanthy Govindarajan — Mon, 16 Oct 2017 13:32:00 +0000

According to many Indian Parents, Disobedience means not complying to rules/laws they set as parents. Being an obedient child means following your parent’s rules on top gear without questioning, even if you really want to. Ain’t the country like that too now? Then why bother?

Everything Starts at Home, isn’t it?

How important is it to stand up and raise questions to your parents? How do you know when you must?

I have personal experiences from being called the obedient child to becoming disobedient. However, the terms have differed now. The talks changed to arguments and then to fiery fights before we saw a change. My sister and I see the difference in our parents now. They used to live for the society like many parents of their generation before. The society we live in can make any parent have a negative mindset. Even if your own child is on the right path, the fear-factor of parents can make the child lose it all. Following the society without any norms is also an unjust act to me.

Disobedience truly means
failure or refusal to obey rules or someone in authority

Every generation will have a set of parents who will suppress their kid’s choices and not listen to them. Similarly, every generation will also have parents who completely kneel and listen to their kid’s requests. Parenting is not an easy task. Isn’t it the same with growing up? Until the kid in us wakes up, we cannot truly be a parent.

I stand up for my rights!

Times change. How my grandmother lived, how my parents lived and how I live has so much difference. To think about my child’s life scares me now. Still, there is this ray of hope with the present generation. They don’t mind being called a disobedient child. They stand up and ask questions. At times, even if it is not their parents, they speak-up to anyone who listens. That’s why we must allow them to speak-up as parents. Above all, we must truly know the difference between a non-cooperating child and a disobedient child. In today’s revolutionary world, every person has the right to stand up against injustice, even if it is about taking a break from their monotonous classes.

Parents accepting their mistakes before their kids when we do one, will encourage them to open-up. As a mother, I am slowly understanding how influential my being is becoming. I know some parents who force their kids into some random classes only because their friend’s child is there. If my child wants to join a guitar class, I don’t want to predestinate her to become a rock-star. They can still become that martial art instructor who can play a melody to rejuvenate themselves.

Let’s teach our children to stand up against injustice, instead of terming them as disobedient or obedient children. If they don’t stand up for their rights, they can never stand up for others.

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